the fourth seems to bring out the patriot in all of us, yes? facebook status updates paint arbitrary lines of stars and stripes and you are either for jesus and soldiers or you believe in the freedom to choose pabst blue ribbon on a warm sunday afternoon. perhaps you consult martha for how to decorate your large backyard full of loving thy neighbor and slightly dangerous sparklers while leonard cohen waves his gravelly voice in the air like a weathered flag. there is no "all and sometimes none of the above" choice except to not update your status at all. passive aggressive social networking is somehow more american than apple pie and the world cup frenzy has somehow overshadowed baseball. so there's that.
remember the fireworks in the backyard of our youth? the excitement of getting to stay up late tempered with a bit of 'be careful you don't blow your hand off.' now we watch commercial displays that never quite seem good enough to justify the crowd and the parking and the absolute overwhelming 'LOOK HOW MUCH FUN WE'RE HAVING'-ness of it all. perhaps i am a bit of a curmudgeon these days. but it has nothing to do with how easily we forget anything besides the first few phrases of the declaration of independence until we hear npr recite it. it is more about how listening to it simultaneously gives me a sense of pride and boredom, feeling detached from the idea of the king and his army, wondering if i'll make it to my friend's bbq this afternoon or if we will visit bryan's dad in the hospital, so grateful for good surgeons and the fact that he has amazing health insurance.
perhaps this is the crux of it, this idea that my decisions and choices today are inconsequential in the grand scheme of things and the very fact that i am able to spend the day with my daughter and my man, relaxed and eating watermelon in the air conditioning, full of ice water and cable television and the safety of nightlights and muffled walls protecting my toddler from the gunshot sounds of celebration that she did not enjoy so much at disneyland a few weeks ago so i'm pretty sure she's not going to enjoy them this time around either.
i am grateful for the freedom to feel ambivalent about the celebration of the good old united states of america, watching the history channel and silently berating myself for having absolutely no idea how the states got their shape. i am respectful of every sacrifice, every struggle, every voice in the crowd, every thinly veiled ethnocentric tendency waved proudly in the air. i am also a tad intimidated by the expectations.
i love the fourth of july much in the same way i love la.
without the crowds and at my own pace.
the fact that this video is the most beautiful thing i have ever seen while the soundtrack is by a band i cannot stand (which has brought out the mccarthyism of some of my friends) somehow makes sense. as much sense as my desire to stay inside on a holiday that fundamentally requires venturing outside to participate.
and as much sense as the fact that mel gibson played the patriot.
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